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What is love ? And what causes it ? An American professor, Charles

Zastrow, offers an interesting answer, particularly to the second

question. He argues that there are many kinds of love and that

particularly in one kind, which he calls "romantic love", we are

strongly influenced not so much by what we actually feel but by what

we tell ourselves about the way we feel. He calls this "self talk".

For example, say a woman is strongly attracted to a man. She tells

herself things like "He is all I have ever wanted in a man!". But

when she discovers that he is just an ordinary human being with

both strong and weak points, she is bitterly disappointed.

Zastrow says that particularly in romantic love, our self-talk comes

from "intense, unsatisfied desires and frustrations", and that this kind

of love may _____1_____ distance. "The more forbidden the love,

the stronger it becomes". He points out that this kind of love begins

to fade and die as soon as a normal relationship begins.

He contrasts romantic love with what he calls "rational love". This is

based, among others, on such things as the ability to communicate

with each other openly, so that you can ______2_____with

problems as they appear, and a clear knowledge of your own goals

in life. This kind of love leads to a lasting, satisfying relationship, but

it is much more difficult to achieve, and is not as frequent as

romantic love.​

Answer 1

Resposta:

require and deal

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